If you’ve got problems getting women, you’re not alone. Most men have these issues, and the good news is, they can easily be fixed. If you’re tired of being alone and you want to start dating hotter women, now is the time as looks and brain power are the commodities you don’t have to be rich to get.
So what is it that keeps women from putting their boyfriends down when they are done playing games? Why is it that women pick arrogant jerks for their friends instead of nice guys with great personalities?
I’ve put together what I think you wanted for you to solve your problems. I hope you are saying A. That’s right.
As you’ve probably heard me say many times before, attraction isn’t a choice. Women don’t choose which men they attract to them. If they did, why would women ruin their fun with such jerks while they go out with their sweetheart’s?
Well, women have done these garbage groups at parties and social events for years. At one point, all women were a group. They got together to eat, drink, and basically sleep over the weekends. I’ve found that most of the bad behavior is done because everyone is having fun together.
Now, by being together all the time and talking about nothing except their pleasure ( drank topless picnics and all that 😛 ) women started getting together for sex all the time. Soon, they started competing with each other for dominance. It’s like they fight to the death. Men would never do this if it were left up to them alone. Women want it to be someone else, so they make excuses for them in their books to be able to leave the night out with someone better looking or a catch.
Women won’t let you help them out anymore. For years now, women have been complaining that men can’t offer romance or just cigarettes before. Who can blame them? Men aren’t able or willing to slow down and just talk to her.
This lack of communication is in the way of intimacy within the relationship and skip to intimacy on the first date. Men complain about this all the time but don’t fix this problem. I hope you can fixing this problem because communication is the only way to fix it.
So what’s the solution?
Just communicate. If a women is willing to slow down and talk to you, you’ve found the honeymoon stage of dating is over. Now is the time to slow it down, truly communicate, and get to intimacy. Start doing this and soon, you’ll hear the small gongs inside your head that tell you’re doing it correctly. Soon, you’ll be hearing those gongs all the time, and the attraction between you will just keep building.
Stop hanging out with your friends, asking them for advice, and trying to impress them with your behaviors. You have a problem and I want you to address it. Think about this, men, why should you listen to little old ladies (cougars in general) talk about men? Shouldn’t you be looking at sexy little Asian women showing off those man lips? Stop repressing yourself and listen to a woman.
If a woman gongs with you, it means she’s turned on and comfortable with you. Take it from me, I’ve been going out for years and finally meeting a fantastic woman! I still get nervous at the door, but that’s good, because she needs to hear you say “yes.”